Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Happy Birthday, Daddy, Nana, Ryker and Grandpa!

Daddy's birthday was a long time ago in March :)  We both turned 33 this year and birthdays are pretty unenventful at 33.  We picked up an ice cream cake from Baskin Robbins and ate our cake before dinner (Woohoo!!).  For his birthday we gave Daddy new swim trunks, a t-shirt, a new Cardinal hat and a Bible.  Of course, the girls helped make Daddy's birthday special.  Thank you for being such a great husband and father.  We love you!



Nana's birthday was not next on the calendar but it is in picture order for the blog... Why oh why did I let myself get so far behind?

Here are the girls giving Nana her birthday present.  We took a picture of the grandkids and framed it for Nana. 

Hadley made a special picture for Nana.

After her birthday dinner, we headed out for a family walk.  We walked around Nana and Papa's subdivision and ended up down by the river.  We were telling the kids about our adventures down at the river when we were growing up.  

On our way back to their house we found a puddle in the middle of the road.  It was really calling a few kid's names but Nana was the first one to act!  I had said something like "don't you walk through that puddle, Hadley" and Nana walks right into it and says something like "you mean like this" and proceeds to walk right through the puddle.  Well, if Nana could do it, so could the rest of them, right?  It was so fun!  The kids and adults were all in the puddle and the most of the kids ended up naked or at least half naked before the puddle jumping was over.  Thankfully, my Mom and Dad's neighbor boy rode his bike home and grabbed my camera for me so I could take pictures.  There is one picture missing though.  Stuart stood behind my mom and kicked water on her back without her knowing what he was going to do.  He completely surprised her and the picture I got captured her surprised face perfectly.  Unfortunately, surprised faces are sometimes embarassing faces ;) If my mom gives me the ok to include it, I'll let you know.




It was actually pretty chilly outside, probably to chilly to be jumping in puddles, but oh well.  We headed back to Nana and Papa's for a warm cousin's bath.



Here is the picture we gave Nana.  Gee whiz it's tough getting five kids to look at the stinking camera at the same time!  We tried M&M's, marshmallows, screaming, making funny noises.  You name it, we tried it.  This was the best we could do and I still can't believe that Hadley is not smiling!  She's always smiling for me but her mouth must be chewing an M&M. 

Happy Birthday, Nana!  Thank you for being such an important part of our lives.  You are always there for us and we are so thankful for you.  We hope you had an amazing birthday!

We also took singles of each of the kids too.  I love the way all the bright spring colors turned out.






We also celebrated this little cutie's birthday in April.  Ryker Bradley turned one on April 4th and we celebrated with a party at Brad and Devin's on April 7th (which is Grandpa Bill's birthday).  Happy Birthday, Ryker B.  You are such a happy little boy and we are so happy to have you in our family.  Even as I look at this picture, you put a smile on my face!! We love you!





Devin made Grandpa a birthday cake and we took our presents for Grandpa to the party too.  Ellie made a beautiful banner but I must have forgotten to take a picture of it. Grr!  Before we sang Happy Birthday to Ryker we sang to Grandpa.  For his birthday we got him a new bike helmet.  Brooke and Hadley both got new bikes for Easter and we told Grandpa he had to start wearing a helmet if he wanted to ride with the girls.  I think he was thrilled ;)

Happy Birthday, Grandpa Bill!  You are a wonderful Grandpa to our girls and they are very lucky to have you.  You drop everything to help and are always there for us when we need you.  Thank you for everything you do for our family.  We love you!!



Monday, June 25, 2012

Oh Happy, HAPPY Day!

Brooke was scheduled to have an appointment with her ENT doctor on Tuesday, March 27th (which was the earliest they could get her in).  At this appointment we were going to discuss decannulation (the trach coming out) and the process involved.  On February 27th, I got a call from our Nurse Practitioner saying they had a cancellation for the next day if we wanted it.  Before even checking with our babysitters ;) I said yes.  I would take all three girls if I had to!  Thankfully, Granny was able to come up and watch Kami and Hadley, and Bill, Patti and Brian helped on their lunches.  Brooke and I headed to St. Louis by ourselves, which doesn't happen very often.  Thankfully I just had Brooke because we waited in the waiting room for what seemed like forever!! When we finally met with Dr. Molter with the ENT department, he explained that Brooke was ready for her trach to come out and we scheduled her surgery.  On Wednesday, March 28th, we would head down for surgery.  We were told that we would get a phone call the day before letting us know what time we needed to report for surgery.  For a planner, that's a little frustrating.  I just wanted to know exactly when we needed to go.  So, on Monday morning I called down to see if they maybe knew Brooke's surgery time yet.  And, lucky me they did!!  We were scheduled to report to surgery at 8:45 with the procedure starting at 10:15.  Because St. Louis traffic is pretty unpredictable in the mornings, we decided to get a hotel room the night before.  This would allow us to sleep in a little bit (who can sleep the night before their child's surgery??? But, more on that later...) and not be so rushed to get to the hospital.  The day before we were suppose to leave, my mom started getting a cold and decided not to come down with us on Tuesday night.  Patti, Brooke and I headed out around 5:00 p.m. and checked into our room at the hotel.  Details are a little fuzzy because this was just about three months ago ;) but I will do my best.

So, we are in St. Louis with the knowledge that Brooke will MOST LIKELY get her trach out the next day.  We knew that she needed a scope done to make sure that everything looked good with her trach area and inside (I know they have medical terms, but I don't know exactly what they were looking at).  I didn't want to get too excited, but I was certainly praying for the best.

Grandma and Brooke talking about what was going to happen the next day...
...And, Brooke talking to Daddy before bed.  We had given the I-Pad to Daddy so he could face time with us before the girls went to bed.  Well, this ended up being a bad idea because Hadley became pretty upset after seeing us.  She can be a very sensitive little girl, especially at bed time.

The next morning, we headed to the hospital for surgery.  When Brooke first got her trach, the surgery was scheduled rather quickly and we were bumped around a few times before we actually went into the operating room.  This time, we were provided a nice area for waiting.  Four years ago, we sat right across the waiting room from this area and waited, and waited, and waited.  It obviously was not a joyful day, like this was turning out to be. 


Brooke and two of just about the best Grandmas a girl could ask for.  My mom decided to get up early Wednesday morning and head down to the hospital.  She wasn't missing this, she said :)  These two women have been with me from the very beginning and I couldn't be more thankful! I also couldn't have asked for better companions when I wanted to rip my hair out, puke, scream, etc... ;) 


They came out to get Brooke and get her prepped and ready to go.  I asked about the "happy medicine" they use to calm children down before they leave their parents and they said Brooke could have some.  Thank goodness!! When Hadley had her appendix taken out, she didn't get this wonderful medicine and screamed for me the entire way to the operating room.  Talk about torture.  That was such a horrible feeling!  They kept explaining that she wouldn't remember it, but it still breaks your heart.

The medicine kicked in almost immediately and Brooke was putting on quite a show!! She could hardly talk and just had this silly grin on her face.  She would ask us to turn on the t.v. and would try to point but would just stare at you.  We were all getting quite a laugh.  It was great, especially because she didn't care when they wheeled her away.  Why can't they give this stuff to parents?!?!

They took her back a little before 10:15 and we were told it would take about an hour.  Again, I didn't anticipate that they would find a problem, but I was preparing for the worst.  If they decided she wasn't able to get her trach out, fine.  She was off the vent, who cares if she has the trach? Right?  I can say that, but deep down we all wanted that silly trach out.  Dr. Molter came out about 10:40 and gave the thumbs up as he was walking down the hallway.  My heart jumped!!  We all hugged and then got on the phone. 
This picture was taken back in recovery.  She was pretty upset when she woke up and didn't see Mommy, Grandma or Nana. 


Face timing with Daddy again.  He was anxiously awaiting our call and so excited to see Brooke without her trach.  His co-workers were excited to hear the news as well.  They had been waiting for him to get the call too.

Brooke and Tracy in their matching pj's.
Brooke's appetite has gotten better since her trach was removed.  Almost as soon as we got back to the room she was asking for food. 
Daddy sent Brooke a gift on Wednesday night.  She loved her puppy and slept with it while we were away from home. 
On Thursday morning, the hospital hosted a circus down in the cafeteria.  We weren't able to leave our room, but they did broadcast it on the t.v.   That's almost as good as being there for the real thing.  Brooke was glued to the t.v.!

Nurse Linsie came to visit and brought Brooke some fun goodies.  It's always fun to see Linsie!!
Uncle Stu came to visit too!
Balloons from her sisters and cousins! 
Daddy came down on Thursday evening after work.  He took Friday off so he was able to spend the last night at the hospital with us.  By Friday, we were going stir CRAZY!!

Getting ready for discharge!!


Leaving the hospital without a trach was definitely a great feeling.  I will admit that I was pretty nervous.  I would tell people that I relaxed a little bit more each day.  Now, three months later, I am feeling pretty good.  Brooke's hole is not quite closed up, but it certainly getting smaller.  She is waiting for the day when she can go under water without a band-aid.

Before leaving the hospital, we stopped on the fifth floor to see one of our other favorite nurses, Nicole.  We also saw Dr. Cole and Dr. Warner (two of our favorite doctors).

We had planned a fun day for Brooke after we left the hospital.  We started out at Union Station, but it's changed quite a bit since we were there last.  Most of the stores are closed, so we did more wandering than shopping.  It was a good time killer because the restaurant we wanted to go to didn't open until 11:00.


We ate lunch at Fitz's, one of our favorites.  They have delicious hamburgers and they bottle their own soda right there at the restaurant. 




It's really neat to watch the process and see the soda being bottled. 

Our server was so nice and explained the entire process to us. 

After our yummy lunch, we headed to the Magic house.  The last time we had been to the Magic house, Brooke was in my belly.  It was nice to have this one on one time with her. 











When we arrived back in Rochester, we had a little welcoming committee to greet us.  Uncle Brad, Aunt Devin, Ellie, Ryker, and Aunt Kathy were all waiting for us at Grandma and Grandpa's house.  My Mom and Dad joined us for dinner later.  A big thank you to Grandpa Bill, Aunt Kathy and Granny for helping watch Hadley and Kami while we were in St. Louis.  Our family is so important to us!

LOVE this picture!! :)



Wahoo!!! What a wonderful day! We are so proud of you Brookie!